As someone who’s grown up with emotional wounds and conditioning that taught you to feel less than, you know what it’s like to feel unseen and unvalued at your core.

There’s been this voice inside your head whispering, maybe even screaming at times, “You’re not good enough to achieve what you want in this life. If you step out, you’ll be seen, judged, criticized, made into more of the exile than you already are. Don’t pursue your dreams. They’re not for you anyway.”

Am I getting close?

And yet.

There’s this other voice that you know is there. It comes up every once in a while. It nudges you, it says, “You know, that’s not true. You have something to offer. Your voice, your passions, your desires, all of it matters. Don’t give up. Don’t let the fear stop you,” which is where I come in.

My job is to help this voice outweigh, outshine, and out speak the other one. The one that says you can’t. That voice is your conditioning. It comes from your past, and it’s not even your voice to begin with. This is the voice you’ve learned to live with, be instructed by. And it’s not your fault either.

This is what happens when you grow up in emotionally unsafe or invalidating environments. You end up internalizing those messages and innocently believing that they’re the truth.

They’re not.

You’re ready to achieve your big, beautiful dreams. Even if you think you’re not, you are. This is not about forcing yourself to believe something different, it’s about moving the beliefs that stop you out of the way so that you can see what’s always been there: Your brilliance.

I want you to tune into that word for a minute. Brilliance.

We use that often to describe intelligence, which, yes, that’s absolutely there, but we also use this word to describe something bright and beautiful. Something that captures our attention because we can’t look away. This is your essence. Who you are when you’re not identifying and believing every single negative thought that crosses your mind.

The women I work with are hungry, but after years of survival, they don’t let themselves really feel that hunger. They fear disappointment. But disappointment isn’t the final destination unless you make it the whole story.

What if the end result was peace, exuberance, joy, abundance, connection, self-trust, and a deep-rooted feeling of belonging to something bigger including yourself? What if you could cultivate a connection to your desires so strong that no barriers or boulders could stop you? What if you found a way around those barriers with ease, trust, and equanimity?

You can.

Think of my role with you as a guide who has traveled this path many times before. I know the illusions that rise up: “You’re not enough. You can’t succeed. Your dreams aren’t for you.” But illusions aren’t reality. They’re shadows mistaken for monsters until the light reveals the truth.

The truth is far more stable than you may realize.

When you think of the ocean, you might feel immense calm picturing a beach, or terror picturing crashing waves on a stormy sea. Both only hint at its vastness, something our minds often can’t fathom. That is the truth of who you are: You are the deepest ocean. You hold the waves, not the waves themselves. You are not your thoughts. You can’t be. You’re something more.

Do you want to know who you really are? To embrace that moreness? You can do this. I’ll be here guiding you the whole way.